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At Via Nova Collaborative Family Law, we help families navigate separation, divorce, and custody transitions with dignity, respect, and a commitment to preserving relationships. Our mission is to guide you toward peaceful, practical resolutions—protecting what matters most while helping you move confidently into the next chapter of your life.

 

We understand how deeply family transitions affect not only spouses, but also children and extended family. Having seen the emotional and financial toll that courtroom battles can take, we’ve built our practice around helping clients find healthier, more sustainable paths to resolution.

 

We are especially attuned to the unique challenges faced by North Carolina’s military families—frequent relocations, deployments, and the stress that comes with balancing service life and family. Whether you are a military or civilian family, our goal is the same: to provide compassionate guidance, clear communication, and strong advocacy as you find the best approach for your family’s needs.

 

 

 

 

The Five Approaches to Divorce in North Carolina

 

 

Every family is different—and so is every divorce. Many families believe that if they cannot agree without any help from attorneys, the only option is to go to court. Not true! North Carolina offers several paths for separating couples to resolve their legal, financial, and parenting issues. Understanding these options can help you choose the process that aligns best with your goals, values, and budget.

 

 

1. Collaborative Divorce

 

In a collaborative divorce, both spouses and their attorneys commit to resolving all issues outside of court. This approach focuses on open communication, mutual respect, and problem-solving. A team of professionals—such as financial neutrals, child specialists, and therapists—may be involved to help the couple reach balanced, forward-thinking solutions. The result is a customized agreement that supports each family member’s long-term well-being.

 

 

2. Mediated Settlement

 

Mediation involves working with a neutral third-party mediator who helps you and your spouse discuss issues such as custody, property division, and support. Unlike a judge, the mediator does not decide for you but helps facilitate productive dialogue so you can reach your own agreement. Mediation is often less costly, faster, and less stressful than litigation, and it allows couples to maintain greater control over the outcome.

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3. Contract / Separation Agreement

 

When spouses largely already agree on all major issues—such as child custody, property division, and spousal support—they may proceed with a Separation or Parenting Agreement.

This approach is cost-effective and efficient, but it works best when there is already common ground, clear communication, and mutual trust. Consulting with an attorney ensures that your Agreement is legally enforceable, protects your rights, and meets North Carolina’s legal requirements.

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4. Arbitration

 

Arbitration is a private, out-of-court process similar to litigation. Both spouses agree to hire a neutral arbitrator (often a family law attorney or retired judge) who listens to evidence and makes a legally binding decision. Arbitration can be faster and more private than court, but like litigation, it gives decision-making power to a third party rather than the couple themselves.

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5. Litigation

 

Litigation means resolving disputes through the court system. A judge will make decisions about custody, support, and the division of property. This process is formal, structured, and sometimes necessary when communication has broken down or one party refuses to cooperate. However, litigation can be time-consuming, expensive, and emotionally draining—and it often leaves both parties with less control over the final outcome.

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A Healthier Path Forward

 

 

At Via Nova Collaborative Family Law, we focus on collaborative, mediated, and contract-based separation and divorce because we believe families deserve a process that promotes respect, privacy, and stability. We help clients craft agreements that reflect their unique needs and values—without the damage that prolonged litigation can cause.

 

“Via Nova” means new way—and that’s what we offer: a new way to approach separation, divorce, and parenting transitions with compassion, clarity, and confidence.

 

If you’re ready to explore your options for divorce, mediation, or custody resolution in North Carolina, we invite you to schedule a consultation and begin your journey toward peace and stability.